Where to Do a ‘Friendmas’ in Philadelphia

To us, there’s something about the first week of December that makes “Friendmas” feel officially in season. Calendars are filling up and suddenly everyone is scrambling to schedule that one night where your friend group pretends to exchange gifts.

For a good Friendmas, the location matters. You need somewhere cozy enough to linger, yet festive enough to feel intentional.

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1. Wilder

If you want a Friendmas that feels a bit upscable without losing the fun, Wilder is your spot. Its plush seating and playful cocktail list set the perfect stage for gift swapping. Plus, the upstairs lounge area is perfect for small gatherings that go from “one drink” to “three hours later.

2. Irwins 

Irwins in winter is immaculate. The view of South Philadelphia rooftops, the soft glow of the dining room, and the Mediterranean comfort food all make it feel like a holiday dinner scene in an indie movie. It’s ideal for a Friendmas focused on eating first, gifts later.

3. Wine Dive

This spot is warm, intimate, and incredibly fun. The half-kitschy, half–cool-girl aesthetic makes Wine Dive a standout for small groups looking to keep things cozy. Natural wines and a generally relaxed crowd make it ideal for unwrapping Secret Santa surprises.

4. Fadó Irish Pub

Fadó is surprisingly perfect for small groups. There are plenty of nooks to tuck into, the staff is used to groups lingering, and you can order comfort food that pairs well with a holiday pint. Great for friends who want a chill experience without giving up the holiday spirit.

Friendmas doesn’t need to be a complicated production – just pick a cozy corner to settle in. The real magic is in the stories and the friends you’re lucky enough to celebrate with.

Once your Friendmas is locked in, treat yourself to some romance. Our Philadelphia holiday date night guide is packed with twinkle lights and quiet spots to escape the seasonal chaos.